Midnight Sex Talk – Pain & Pleasure
BDSM, CP, topping, bottoming – what does all this mean to you? Do you think that the first two are network protocols, and that the others must be cookery terms, even though you’ve never heard Nigella mention them? Or are you a fully fledged member of your local community, and a regular attendee of the kind of club that the tabloids send undercover reporters to, (even though they already know what they’re going to write)?
Do you think that inflicting physical pain on someone, (or having it done to you) however consensually, is simply torture by another name? Or is it the ultimate transfer of power, and the only true way to work out your own needs and desires?